Do you want to make miracles? It’s not so hard. Let’s say you see someone’s faults and you truly want to help—whether it be a friend, a spouse, your child or even your nemesis. Don’t say a word about what you have found wrong. Instead, find something wondrous about that person, perhaps something that nobody ever mentions. Talk about it—to yourself, and to those who will listen and sympathize. In very little time, you will see such a new person, you...